How to Make This Year the Best Year Yet: Close the Gap Between Your Dreams and Reality

If THIS is going to be THE year you start getting the results you desire…

The gap between what you DESIRE to experience (the life you want to live) and what you EXPECT to experience (the life you are living and presume will be there when you wake up tomorrow) must be closed. 

To close that gap, you’ve got to align your visions of who you desire to be _and the YOU you believe you are.

Because the YOU you BELIEVE you are – the image you hold of yourself – is who actually shows up. The YOU you believe you are is who calls the shots, who decides what actions to take (or not take). The YOU you believe you are is who determines your results.

Here’s why:

• The image you hold of yourself determines your thoughts.
• Your thoughts determine your actions.
• Your actions determine your results.

Yes, there’s some more, if you want to talk about metaphysics and energy / vibes, but at the foundational level, the version of life that your brain expects to live is what it’s going to help you keep creating, whether you mean to or not. The image you hold in your brain of who you are, and what you believe to be true for and about you, limits the outcomes you can experience. That image is the pattern your brain must use to shape your thoughts, actions, decisions, experiences, and results.

If you want to make this year different, start taking the action(s) that the YOU you desire to be would take. THINK of yourself as the kind of woman who has the life and results you desire to have. When you THINK of yourself that way, you’ll SPEAK and ACT that way, too. You will BE that way, and that woman. 

Commit to questioning yourself, before you make decisions this year. If I was exactly the woman I desire to be, what would I decide about this? (What would I say / do / choose? Would I go / not go? Would I say yes / no? What would THAT woman do?)

The life that you desire to live must be the same life you image yourself living, today.

The life that you desire to live must be the same life you intend to live, today.

The life that you desire to live must be the same life you EXPECT to experience, today.

The life that you desire to live must be the same life you show up for, today.

Cheers to YOU making this year all you can dream up for yourself. Happy New Year!