You're Allowed to Stop Suffering: Letting Go of Exhaustion

You’re allowed to stop suffering whenever you’re ready. Your exhaustion is not your crown of victory. Bone-weary is not a requirement.

Yes, you get to be, do and have BOTH — the career and income PLUS the babies and family. No, you don’t have to suffer extra because that's your choice.

You get to do it different than her, or her, or her. You get to say NO to every in invitation, request or demand that doesn’t support what you’re building. GUILT. FREE.

Do you hear me? You GET to say NO to the things that don’t move you toward your vision, and save your energy for the things that do. Just.Like.That. You’re allowed to do that; the only one who has to sign the permission slip is you.

Yes, your dream is doable, possible, and 100% an option. And if it doesn’t feel like that now, it’s because of what’s going on in here — 🧠💗 — NOT because you’re not working hard enough.

I wish I knew then. And you need to know now. You’re not crazy, and it’s not impossible 👉 AND IT WILL COME TO LIFE AT A SPEED RELATIVE TO THE DEPTH AT WHICH YOU BELIEVE THAT.

Get it? The more you believe it’s possible for you, it’s happening for you, it’s real for you, the faster is comes.

Do you see how all your twisting and thrashing and FORCING is slowing you down? Do you see how it’s an outward example of your inward doubt? Do you see that now?

The work, YOUR work, is to bring yourself to a place where you know like you know like you KNOW, that

🔥 you’re here for the things you’re CALLED to do
🔥 your passion is ENOUGH proof
🔥 your dream IS coming to life
🔥 you ARE capable
🔥 you CAN’T fuck it up if you keep showing up
🔥you DON’T have to force it

Do all you know to do today, and then rest. Trust that the next steps will come tomorrow. And then the next day. And then the next.

Release your need to exhaust yourself to prove you’re enough. It’s slowing you down, and it’s draining your soul. I can speak to it because I lived every inch of it. It took me so long to learn what I’m telling you here.  

If you know what I’m saying here, you KNOW what I’m saying. You’ve felt it, and you feel it. This is your sign. This is for you. Give yourself permission to stop suffering and start believing in yourself. Let joy in.  Ok?